I gave the bestie lawrence's number for she said she miss him...the bestie gave L a call around 2+ when he's having his break...they chatted and the bestie gave L a scolding when she heard L saying this:-
L: “我好想为了孩子挽留这段婚姻，我真的很对不起她（L's 老婆)”
B生气的说: “我觉得你应该回去你的美发院看有没有药水把你的脑袋洗得清醒一点。。设麽叫对不起你的老婆？你知道你当初对不起的是谁吗？”
L: 静。。。
当初和L通话，他曾经说：“我不是以前的L了”（可是经过我和B的判断，他根本就没有变。）值得贺喜的是L不在会发简讯给我。。撤底的放弃了 ^^...
难道你真的不明白我为何抗拒你的联络吗？
Sunday, November 30, 2008
Friday, November 28, 2008
Sunday, November 23, 2008
逃避？
"Ride safely went u go back heavy rain" 19-Nov-2008 16:18
"Good m to u this week end r u free to come out to have coffee" 20-Nov-2008 07:20
"Good m do u free on this weekend to drink coffee i very sad n didnt slp for 4 day i n my wife want to divorce le if u r not free it alright." 21-Nov-2008 07:18
"If u r not free it ok." 22-Nov-2008 15:05
看了很不爽。。把我当成后备轮胎！（好大胆！）
《你》
天空好阴，心情也好阴。。回头想想，不回复 - 代表我在逃避现实吗？
"If u r not free it ok." 22-Nov-2008 15:05
看了很不爽。。把我当成后备轮胎！（好大胆！）
《你》
- 睡不着，关我屁事。。。
- 面临离婚的局事，又关我屁事？
天空好阴，心情也好阴。。回头想想，不回复 - 代表我在逃避现实吗？
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
Lawrence msg me
The moment i got into my room, my mum asked if a guy called me...i said"no ah"..and then i went to check my hp after changing and wat was displayed on the screen is:
3 MESSAGES
1 MISSED CALL
1 MISSED CALL
OK-i clicked and got this:-"How r u i am lawrence do u know who i am."
I replied:"Kang Rong?"
He replied:"Yes"
I called the man whom i shared 5 yrs of r/s with, after we broke off...we are contact-less for 3 yrs..summary of the conversation is...his wife is now stepping on another boat...the child is not his..and he still thinks that his wife is the victim...[where i am victim]...F off la...anyway, is this wat they call RETRIBUTION?
I replied:"Kang Rong?"
He replied:"Yes"
I called the man whom i shared 5 yrs of r/s with, after we broke off...we are contact-less for 3 yrs..summary of the conversation is...his wife is now stepping on another boat...the child is not his..and he still thinks that his wife is the victim...[where i am victim]...F off la...anyway, is this wat they call RETRIBUTION?
The Art of Letting Go
Dr. Alan Zimmerman’s Comments:
Sooner or later, everyone you know will disappoint you in some way. They’ll say something or fail to say something that will hurt you. And they’ll do something or fail to do something that will anger you. It’s inevitable.
Unfortunately, you make things worse when you stew over someone’s words and deeds. When you dwell on a rude remark or an insensitive action made by another person, you’re headed for deeper problems. In fact, the more you dwell on these things, the more bitter you’ll get.
You’ll find your joy, peace and happiness slipping away. And you’ll find your productivity slowing down as you spend more and more time thinking about the slight or telling others about it. Eventually, if you don’t stop doing it, you’ll even get sick. So what should you do the next time someone betrays you?
TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR FEELINGS.
Even though the other person may be at fault, even though the other person wronged you, you are still responsible for your own feelings. Other people do not “cause” your feelings. You choose them.
Then, you’ve got to learn to WALK AWAY FROM DISAPPOINTMENT.
It’s difficult to do, but it’s possible. The famous 19th century Scottish historian, Thomas Carlyle, proved that. After working on his multi-volume set of books on “The French Revolution” for six years, Carlyle completed the manuscript and took volume one to his friend John Stuart Mill. He asked Mill to read it.
Five days later, Mill’s maid accidentally threw the manuscript into the fire. In agony, Mill went to Carlyle’s house to tell him that his work had been destroyed.
Carlyle did not flinch. With a smile, he said, “That’s all right, Mill.
These things happen. It is a part of life. I will start over. I can remember most of it, I am sure. Don’t worry. It’s all here in my mind.
Go, my friend! Do not feel bad.”
As Mill left, Carlyle watched him from the window. Carlyle turned to his wife and said, “I did not want him to see how crushed I am by this misfortune.” And with a heavy sigh, he added, “Well the manuscript is gone, so I had better start writing again.”
Carlyle finally completed the work, which ranks as one of the great classics of all time. He had learned to walk away from his disappointment.
After all, what could Carlyle have done about his burnt manuscript?
Nothing. Nothing would have resurrected the manuscript. All Carlyle could do was to get bitter or get started.
And what can you do about anything once it is over?
Not much. You can try to correct it if it is possible, or you can walk away from it if it isn’t. Those are your only two choices.
Sooner or later, everyone you know will disappoint you in some way. They’ll say something or fail to say something that will hurt you. And they’ll do something or fail to do something that will anger you. It’s inevitable.
Unfortunately, you make things worse when you stew over someone’s words and deeds. When you dwell on a rude remark or an insensitive action made by another person, you’re headed for deeper problems. In fact, the more you dwell on these things, the more bitter you’ll get.
You’ll find your joy, peace and happiness slipping away. And you’ll find your productivity slowing down as you spend more and more time thinking about the slight or telling others about it. Eventually, if you don’t stop doing it, you’ll even get sick. So what should you do the next time someone betrays you?
TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR FEELINGS.
Even though the other person may be at fault, even though the other person wronged you, you are still responsible for your own feelings. Other people do not “cause” your feelings. You choose them.
For example, two different people could be told that their suggestions made at the staff meeting were “stupid and idiotic.” One person may “choose” to feel so hurt that he never speaks up at any other meeting again. The other person may “choose” to feel sorry for the critic, sorry that the critic couldn’t see the wisdom and necessity of his suggestions.
As long as you blame other people for your feelings, as long as you believe other people caused your feelings, you’re stuck. You’re a helpless victim. But if you recognize the fact that you choose your feelings and you are responsible for your feelings, there’s hope. You can take some time to think about your feelings. And you can decide what is the best thing to say or do.Then, you’ve got to learn to WALK AWAY FROM DISAPPOINTMENT.
It’s difficult to do, but it’s possible. The famous 19th century Scottish historian, Thomas Carlyle, proved that. After working on his multi-volume set of books on “The French Revolution” for six years, Carlyle completed the manuscript and took volume one to his friend John Stuart Mill. He asked Mill to read it.
Five days later, Mill’s maid accidentally threw the manuscript into the fire. In agony, Mill went to Carlyle’s house to tell him that his work had been destroyed.
Carlyle did not flinch. With a smile, he said, “That’s all right, Mill.
These things happen. It is a part of life. I will start over. I can remember most of it, I am sure. Don’t worry. It’s all here in my mind.
Go, my friend! Do not feel bad.”
As Mill left, Carlyle watched him from the window. Carlyle turned to his wife and said, “I did not want him to see how crushed I am by this misfortune.” And with a heavy sigh, he added, “Well the manuscript is gone, so I had better start writing again.”
Carlyle finally completed the work, which ranks as one of the great classics of all time. He had learned to walk away from his disappointment.
After all, what could Carlyle have done about his burnt manuscript?
Nothing. Nothing would have resurrected the manuscript. All Carlyle could do was to get bitter or get started.
And what can you do about anything once it is over?
Not much. You can try to correct it if it is possible, or you can walk away from it if it isn’t. Those are your only two choices.
Saturday, November 15, 2008
Friday, November 14, 2008
Wednesday, November 12, 2008
Wednesday, November 5, 2008
Monday, November 3, 2008
silly day...
From GoodWood Park Hotel to Hans.... embarrassing day indeed...
Jo slim alot...her face is so small...aiyo~
tks boss for the dinner~ wooooooooooohhoooooooooooooooooo
empty headed makes a dizzy day...
Jo slim alot...her face is so small...aiyo~
tks boss for the dinner~ wooooooooooohhoooooooooooooooooo
empty headed makes a dizzy day...
Sunday, November 2, 2008
Unwell . Betray . Dissappointment
I had a dizzy day @ work...The council members should feel my love in the dim sum they are eating...i bought them in my raincoat hor! Got myself wet...but dun think they'll appreciate it...
Went home to rest after work...couldn't sleep...meet Diana for a show @ causeway point...[The Coffin] omg...i jumped twice!!! [no guts]..Difference between Diana & me:-
Went home to rest after work...couldn't sleep...meet Diana for a show @ causeway point...[The Coffin] omg...i jumped twice!!! [no guts]..Difference between Diana & me:-
Diana - watched with eyes wide open, no signs of her moving even the slightest, very "zai"
Me - watched with bag covering my one and a half eye [peeping tru a slight allowance], jumped out of my seat twice.
"wow!!! ni heng li hai lei, mei you bei xia dao!"
"you ah...wo de shou duo le yi xia"
"-_-""
The topic of men betraying women's love pop out of our mouth as we chat...i have a question posting out to all men:-
DEAR MEN,
Why do you guys betray your partner's love and chose to get involve with another lady?
FROM: jing
haiz~ juz dun understand u guys~ juz stick to one` cannot meh?
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There was a period of time where Diana was stressful over her family & classmates...she stepped into the world of depression...[actuali im kindda angry @ myself...y didnt i accompany her @ that period of time?][wat kind of friend am i?] where THE THOUGHT cross tru her mindset~
Dear Diana,
Im glad u didnt do anything silly...if not~ i will be guilty de...
DEAR MEN,
Why do you guys betray your partner's love and chose to get involve with another lady?
FROM: jing
haiz~ juz dun understand u guys~ juz stick to one` cannot meh?
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There was a period of time where Diana was stressful over her family & classmates...she stepped into the world of depression...[actuali im kindda angry @ myself...y didnt i accompany her @ that period of time?][wat kind of friend am i?] where THE THOUGHT cross tru her mindset~
Dear Diana,
Im glad u didnt do anything silly...if not~ i will be guilty de...
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